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Too Vague to start somewhere and too much to end somewhere!!There are people who feel and say am tender and sensitive and there are people who say I’ve attitude. But I say am just a girl next door.. No more and no less! Someone who has mixed emotions.. I can be way too generous and at the same time throw loads of attitude around for you to handle! Lol.. This isn’t a warning or disclaimer for my readers, but this is just me!! You take back what you give to me!! I love teddy bears, chocolates, flowers and music.. My room’s pink!!You might have known by now that am a typical girl who’s still stuck somewhere in the era where I dream of my prince charming coming for me on a white horse!! Yes, he would! Wishes, hopes, expectations and dreams are few things that give us a reason to move on; Don’t they?!? Not a happy go lucky girl who haven’t yet faced cruelty of life.. I have been through thick and thin and I know what life is! Thank you people for spending two minutes of your precious life to know about me!! By the way, that would take just 2 more minutes to roam around my blog and go through my posts!! :)
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Thursday, August 26, 2010

This Makes Me Think Now...

                                  Yaay yaaay yaay!!! >:D< Finally I could make out sometime to write. Write for myself, write for my blog! Not all the days in my life are as free as they were once. Some days, I need scheduling even to breathe. And some days I wonder wether the day has double the hours than the previous one! @-).
I never mind, as long as nothing goes as wrong as the other day, Smiley when every damn thing went wrong! SmileyWonder how I manage to have such days in my life. 8-| . Well, I’ll talk about the bad day some other time, cuz I know that may spoil my mood to write and I may end up clicking on delete the draft!
My Mr.Right??!!!???
      Lol… It’s a girl thing- whenever we get time to do nothing; we pick up on all the “not so talked about and so talked about” topics under the sky to word on. No wonder why gossiping is feminine! :">  Not many days ago, I was talking to one of my good friends and she asked me something that stressed out my brain! Now that we are girls grown up enough to be considerate for marriage, she was asking me what kind of person would I like to be my partner! And yeah, that made me think- what on earth would a girl like me expect from a guy!?! :-? Of late, I’ve been taking related though not so similar questions from my parents and grand too, but I’ve never punched my greymatter on this! Prolly becuz I know how it goes! We think and make a list of qualities on how “my guy” should be after first quarter of life! Then, the list gets skinny in few years after one and a half or more bitter love stories in life. Further down, when we reach a stage of “Wanna get married becuz I want some break in life and wanna see some colorful change to my daily schedules”, the list is forgotten and vanishes! May be becuz by then, girls get too matured to understand life is far more stringent than expected to run as per the protocol we set for it! This is what I’ve seen and learnt from my elder cousins and friends who are way ahead on the race of life with me! They are on wrong side of fifties and don’t ask me why I have friends triple and quadruple my age since my childhood :| I honestly don’t know why! :-ss And mind you guys, when I say quarter of life or whole life, better you count it on a hundred years as am not so friendly to the dumbasses who count life on 60 or 50. I love myself and my life, so I want to be around till the final fullstop as per rules :-< Make the changes in your calculations before I spank you :| I hate it when someday says we are not gonna live more than 60. I am like “You dumbo, who on earth gave you the right to take away good 40 years of my life!?! X( don’t you dare say “WE”! I damn care when you say “I” and reduce the span to even 10! But I am smart enough to take care of my life not to give up at half past the race!”
        Okeh now, that’s not what I wanted to write about! Got carried away! Back to the question about what kind of guy I would like to accompany me with walk of my life, I wanna go real slow on making the list cuz I have enough time before the list contracts in size! It’s still working on the background! Meanwhile, I would like to have inputs from all my good friends!
Girls- let me know what kind of guy would you like to share your life with and what are the first things you would look in a man for?
 Guys- What kind of Man do you wanna be like to the girl of your dreams?  Stop thinking on what kinda girl you want, and let me know what kind of man you can be!
And for those who are thinking on what to answer for- Decide your gender first and get back to me. [That was joke :| you are intended to atleast smile now though I know it’s a poor joke 8-|] :P
Well, any human who has his brain working would like a friendly, cooperative, understanding, loving and caring counterpart! That’s NOT what am looking for! Don’t joke around with me with such answers!  … lemme know the extra step that makes your list unique! And yeah! I’ll get back with my list too! :P:P

22 comments:

--sameer-- said...

Hmmm ya everyone has his or her own feelings of his/her wouldbe ;)) .My girl dont know where she is and who she is, but who ever it is ,dont know what will be her past life, but when she becomes mine and i will be her's then will try to give her so muchhhhhhhhhhh happiness that she wouldn't even have dreamt .Will try to give her what ever she needs;)) Nothing much to say but I would like to be like a man she was looking for. Thats it. And Anvitha , a good post ;))

Anvitha said...

Thanks Sammy! And you are a sweetheart :) good that you wanna keep ur girl happy! Lucky girl I say! wanna " >:D<" you... But I still remember - you once said I wont hug any damn person I meet and that was a blow on my ego =((

-♥sameer♥- said...

ya ya ya iam a sweetheart, thats the reason y all ants r biting my heart (as it is sweet) lol =))
Hmm coming to that hug matter , no commentsssssssssssssssss [-( , :-$ but u still remember it :-P

Anvitha said...

Yes Sammy I do! That was just an e-hug! No girl would ever forget that a guy acted smart on her :|honestly, I hated u for saying that .. and I really, REALLY liked ur attitude then :d

»––––•(-•(¯`·.__SAMEER__.·´¯)•-)•–––-« said...

I didnt want to hurt ur ego dear ;)) nor wanted to blow on ur ego ;)) . That is me , Iam like this only . Dont know y :-?? .Ya i will keep my wife very happyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
Lol u hate me but like my attitude ;)) hatred and likeliness cant be at a same place dear ;))
so dont hate me much :-P

Anvitha said...

I disagree Sammy :| There can be liked and hated points in same person. Practically speaking, there are pros and cons in every humanbeing. Not fair enough to say that You like all the shades of a person!

_-sameer-_ said...

Well i agree with u ;)) that everyone has some pros and cons in themselves , what i meant to say was where there is love , there shouldn't be any place for hatred ;)) if u Like something ,love it in a way that u dont see any loopholes in it...... Will say in telugu as i know my english is a bit weak ;)) Prema unna chota dveshaniki chotu ledu :-P .Dvesham unna kuda aaaa prema valla anta mayam chesestundi ,even hatred ni . abbo chala cheppesa inka apesta =))=))

Anonymous said...

Anvitha, I love to have a husband like Sameer
Nazima.

----sameer---- said...

Hmmmm Nazima not only u , every girl's dream would be to get a hubby who loves her, more than anyone else in the whole world ;)) and gives her extreme happiness ;(( as happiness cant be bought even if u r the richest person in the world. Hope u and all the girls in this world will get a loving husband and viceversa ;)) then there might be no sadness in the world :D:D

sridivya said...

One day if u dont have anything xcept a boy besides u who loves/cares u more than anyone.... and u still feel like u r having everything .... then u r the most luckiest girl in the world... :-)....but i feel itz a magic n not a reality... wat say Anvithaa?

Anvitha said...

Agreed Divs... But not everybody is as lucky as you to find the Mr.Right. We have to hunt for him!! Love is a magic, but in case if its an arranged one... what are the things/qualities you look for?

Anonymous said...

Hey Anvi; good one. You are right, every girl has some set of qualities in her mind for her guy apart from the standard ones. I love to have a guy in my life who smiles even when am a monkey! who is NOT short tempered and who should not hesitate to enter into kitchen to help me when his mom is around! I hate guys who behave a changed man when his mom is around! PRATHIMA RANI

Anonymous said...

LMAO... Prathima... hadh hoti hain! You want your guy to help u in kitchen even when his mom is around? Teri saas ki tho saans rukh jaayegi =))
Dheeraj

mr.bean said...

enna issue going on :-??....is it about choosing right guy for a gal..right??.Then i hav to enter this scene...rofl...i think i hav all these qualities =))..any more suggestions pm me :D..

anywayz nice post anvitha....thought it was late but its good :)

Anvitha said...

Prathi, its genuine feeling! Never mind Dheeraj, hez still a kitten with his mommy :P Even I hate it when a guy changes colors when his mommy is around!
Dheeraj; apna kaam se kaam rakh :| hameshaa useh chidatha rehtha hain :P and you were asked to comment on what kinda guy you would be for your girl :| Not to comment on Prathi's comments x(

Anvitha said...

Oye Mr.Bean :| You got it wrong! Tell us, what kind of guy you can be for ur girl ;)

mr.bean said...

change is the only unique thing in this world...i think everyone agree with this...

so i can be like anytype of guy for a gal.... :D =))

u got my request?

balu said...

wow andharu chala baga chepparu,edhi just na abhipryamu,

life anty matlathoo cheppedhi kadhu,life anty korikalu unddavachu,

manaku emi kavali kanty manam emi ewgaluguthunnamu,

patner anty mana life lo sagabagamu,

mana korikalu anugunagga ewaru undaru,

but mana kosam okaru unnaru anna feeling adhi matalathoo cheppalemu,

(¯`·.__SAMEER__.·´¯) said...

hmmmmmmm Balu .Gundelu pindesavu ayya =)) :-P

kani ikkada manam ela undagalam for our wouldbe annadi question ;)) which u said we cant express in words; its ok ;))

sridivya said...

If it is arranged one then we dont hav any choice r chance to know abt the guy xcept his family status,qualifiactions ....
N i too like a guy who can show his love affection/caring even when his mom/frds around

Anvitha said...

Divs :P am not talking about the choice we would get... am talking about the qualities we would love to have in guy ... They may or may be there... but what would be the preferences?? :P

Anonymous said...

Nice post...=) I dont want to make up in my mind tht guy i want to marry.... :| because we will go in our dreams and when we find that perfect man he wont be much of perfect as we thought.

All i know from seeing from friends n family that marriage need lot of work; if your lucky you will have happy moments and also bad once.

ps. sorry for any grammer or spelling mistake. I am in hurry.

~Bella~

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