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Too Vague to start somewhere and too much to end somewhere!!There are people who feel and say am tender and sensitive and there are people who say I’ve attitude. But I say am just a girl next door.. No more and no less! Someone who has mixed emotions.. I can be way too generous and at the same time throw loads of attitude around for you to handle! Lol.. This isn’t a warning or disclaimer for my readers, but this is just me!! You take back what you give to me!! I love teddy bears, chocolates, flowers and music.. My room’s pink!!You might have known by now that am a typical girl who’s still stuck somewhere in the era where I dream of my prince charming coming for me on a white horse!! Yes, he would! Wishes, hopes, expectations and dreams are few things that give us a reason to move on; Don’t they?!? Not a happy go lucky girl who haven’t yet faced cruelty of life.. I have been through thick and thin and I know what life is! Thank you people for spending two minutes of your precious life to know about me!! By the way, that would take just 2 more minutes to roam around my blog and go through my posts!! :)
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Thursday, January 6, 2011

Forgotten Episodes Of My Life!!

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Forgotten Episodes Of My Life!!: "I would first like to make a disclaimer!! “I am NOT dead :|… Am sound, sane and healthy…” I don’t know how many would have been disappointed..."

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Am I In Love?!?

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Am I In Love?!?: "“Am I in Love?? :-?” Its a very common question, but very complex one to answer =((. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more ..."

Friday, October 22, 2010

A Spotless Mind With A Beautiful Heart...

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: A Spotless Mind With A Beautiful Heart...: "Every time I close the door on reality it comes in through the windows. They say as time passes, people grow older, smarter and wiser. True..."

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Top 10 Of The World's Unsolved Mysteries...

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Top 10 Of The World's Unsolved Mysteries...: "Few things make me pause and ponder! Even in the 21st century that we are in, we lack scientific explanations and know how’s for many incide..."

Sunday, October 3, 2010

The Woman In Me…

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: The Woman In Me…: "I feel am truly blessed – for too many reasons. I woke up today, stretched my body to wave off lethargy. Twisting my neck, I slowly opened m..."

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Technology -- From Loyal Servant to Royal Pain!

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Technology -- From Loyal Servant to Royal Pain!: "I hope I won’t be cyber-bullied for taking a long and uninformed break from posting. I’ve been getting mails asking for an updated blog. Sta..."

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

How Beautiful Are You?

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: How Beautiful Are You?: "I grew up reading and knowing that a thing of beauty is a joy forever! It left an indelible mark on my mind and soul as a child... When I w..."

Monday, September 6, 2010

Beauty of a Mother-Daughter Relationship

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Beauty of a Mother-Daughter Relationship: "When I was 7…Me: “ Awwhh Mommy :( these oats taste yakk :-&! I hate them…”Mommy: “ But they are good for your health dear,”Me: “But….”Mommy..."

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Inside A Woman's Heart...

An Evening Coffee With Anvitha...: Inside A Woman's Heart...: "Every woman has a kid living in her. This kid comes out of the “matured” her when she is all alone, or with her best gang of girls or with h..."

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Redirecting since this one is NOT a personal post :)


Helloo Frnz.. >:D< Nothing personal for today, but yeah.. a post on rather serious note have been posted at http://aneveningcoffee.blogspot.com/.. Your Comments are valuable; so do let me know your opinions too ;))

Monday, August 30, 2010

All Occupied with A New Blog!

Oooppss… Sawwiee Guyss.. :( So sorry that I couldn’t post for few days! Well, I know what your monkey brains’ telling ya! :P NO!! :| I did not take this loonnggg to decide what all should be on my “MR. Right” list! To start off, many of my friends and readers called me up saying they miss the good old “theme oriented” blogs!! May be you guys are too bored to read about me day in and day out! =(( So, something told me – While I take out time to write for my personal blog, I’ll slip aside an hour more from my 24 hours for a theme oriented blog too!! Though I haven’t yet posted , I started one and since am technically so dumb, it took some time for me to personalize it! Whoever feels am not posting anything out of my life here, can read something out of the ring at my blog Aneveningcoffee!!  This blog is for us to discuss our daily chores which need a serious thought but we often push them aside becuz we are too busy making money that to know what we are, we need to knock the door of our life before we peep in! And yeah… anyone who’s interested in discussing about serious but not so seriously taken issues, or have any issue which you wanna rise a discussion about, let me know, bcuz this time am not so stringent about giving authorization to post! Anyone with working grey matter would get my permission! There were times when professional time is limited to 5.30pm and back home; personal time and life has its space!! Often started with “an evening coffee”! Let’s drill our way for our personal time, away from professional chores! Not many of us know what’s happening out of our cabin's AC's reach :|

Sometimes we strive real hard to make simple things so very complex!! 
I know, am supposed to fill in my Mr. Right’s list by now, and I did… But I am not in a mood to dream good and think romantic at the moment to type in about ‘that’ stuff! All occupied with other stuff… By the way, I wanted to personalize ma new blog and I was searching for where to embed what and html blah blah - 8-| was way outta ma head! Was cursing techy people who all work in software firms and make things look soo complex :( And then, I started understanding that and HOLD ON- In 3 days, I designed and coded my own blog! Learnt the html basic coding just by surfing , gathered some old templates and built my own :D! Not a rocket science I thought! LOL…

But again… this stupid machine has taken away significant part of my personal life since past 4 days!!

Thursday, August 26, 2010

This Makes Me Think Now...

                                  Yaay yaaay yaay!!! >:D< Finally I could make out sometime to write. Write for myself, write for my blog! Not all the days in my life are as free as they were once. Some days, I need scheduling even to breathe. And some days I wonder wether the day has double the hours than the previous one! @-).
I never mind, as long as nothing goes as wrong as the other day, Smiley when every damn thing went wrong! SmileyWonder how I manage to have such days in my life. 8-| . Well, I’ll talk about the bad day some other time, cuz I know that may spoil my mood to write and I may end up clicking on delete the draft!
My Mr.Right??!!!???
      Lol… It’s a girl thing- whenever we get time to do nothing; we pick up on all the “not so talked about and so talked about” topics under the sky to word on. No wonder why gossiping is feminine! :">  Not many days ago, I was talking to one of my good friends and she asked me something that stressed out my brain! Now that we are girls grown up enough to be considerate for marriage, she was asking me what kind of person would I like to be my partner! And yeah, that made me think- what on earth would a girl like me expect from a guy!?! :-? Of late, I’ve been taking related though not so similar questions from my parents and grand too, but I’ve never punched my greymatter on this! Prolly becuz I know how it goes! We think and make a list of qualities on how “my guy” should be after first quarter of life! Then, the list gets skinny in few years after one and a half or more bitter love stories in life. Further down, when we reach a stage of “Wanna get married becuz I want some break in life and wanna see some colorful change to my daily schedules”, the list is forgotten and vanishes! May be becuz by then, girls get too matured to understand life is far more stringent than expected to run as per the protocol we set for it! This is what I’ve seen and learnt from my elder cousins and friends who are way ahead on the race of life with me! They are on wrong side of fifties and don’t ask me why I have friends triple and quadruple my age since my childhood :| I honestly don’t know why! :-ss And mind you guys, when I say quarter of life or whole life, better you count it on a hundred years as am not so friendly to the dumbasses who count life on 60 or 50. I love myself and my life, so I want to be around till the final fullstop as per rules :-< Make the changes in your calculations before I spank you :| I hate it when someday says we are not gonna live more than 60. I am like “You dumbo, who on earth gave you the right to take away good 40 years of my life!?! X( don’t you dare say “WE”! I damn care when you say “I” and reduce the span to even 10! But I am smart enough to take care of my life not to give up at half past the race!”
        Okeh now, that’s not what I wanted to write about! Got carried away! Back to the question about what kind of guy I would like to accompany me with walk of my life, I wanna go real slow on making the list cuz I have enough time before the list contracts in size! It’s still working on the background! Meanwhile, I would like to have inputs from all my good friends!
Girls- let me know what kind of guy would you like to share your life with and what are the first things you would look in a man for?
 Guys- What kind of Man do you wanna be like to the girl of your dreams?  Stop thinking on what kinda girl you want, and let me know what kind of man you can be!
And for those who are thinking on what to answer for- Decide your gender first and get back to me. [That was joke :| you are intended to atleast smile now though I know it’s a poor joke 8-|] :P
Well, any human who has his brain working would like a friendly, cooperative, understanding, loving and caring counterpart! That’s NOT what am looking for! Don’t joke around with me with such answers!  … lemme know the extra step that makes your list unique! And yeah! I’ll get back with my list too! :P:P

Saturday, August 21, 2010

A Private Post

Hello Frnz. My life is an open book! But Few pages are torn apart and kept aside especially for my Frnz! Becuz part of me is just not available to whole world and strangers! Unknown readers may avoid this post, but my Frnz can have access to my personal posts! To read my personal posts, you have to add me as a friend. Many people mail me asking how to do so. The following instructions are for those who don’t know how to:
1) Click on the “Follow” button at the left of this post.
2) You need give your Google OR yahoo OR twitter account to follow.  Click on the account with which you wanna follow.
3) Login into your account with your username and password.
4) Give your name... And Plz upload some damn photo atleast bcuz I hate naked followers :| (To do so, click on edit picture and upload some pic)
5) Click on “Follow this blog” button.
6) Blog owner (that is me :p) should approve you as friend.
7) And my friends have access to all my posts :d

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Little Things Make A Big Difference...

Yes, in fact they do! Visiting the old woman was just a little thing, but it made a big difference! It changed the way I think, the way I honor myself :) As I thought, the old woman wasn’t one of those scary big figures; instead she is a warm, pleasant;  “saw and know the life” kind of gentle woman, visiting whom is worth a bookmark in my diary. When she saw me in a traditional Indian wear, she said “Don’t let these years skip by, cuz no sooner than few years, you may not consider western wear and even if you want to, you may not be as skinny once you are a mother. Capture and utilize every moment!” I was like /omg and then with a smile I told her; “Grandma, I thought you would like to see me in this dress”. And this is what she told me. 
“The first 17 years of my life I spent living the way my parents wanted me to. Next 10 years, the way my in-laws demanded me to, next 30 years, as my husband liked me to and for next 15 years as per the conveniences of my kids. Am past 70 now, got a chance to lead my life the way I want. BUT, all I want now are the lost years of my life! Don’t ever live for others, live for yourself! A true near and dear would end his day happily knowing you are happy! It’s better to die feeling proud and happy than to live trying to make people around you feel proud and happy!”
“MAKES SENSE” I thought. :-?
It started raining; we had a coffee and chatted about many things. It’s amazing to see the journey of life through an old woman’s eyes! Love, hate, life, death, trust, deception- all packed into a single box, I felt! She confessed many things that she now feels should be done the other way round! And also few traces of herself that makes her feel proud! And some silly issues that trapped her in situations unbargained for! Few things were so silly that made both of us burst laughing! Here is an example, if you like to laugh too… I’ll put it straight in her words.
“One day, I was out walking with my 5 year old daughter. She picked up something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. I took the item away from her and I asked her not to do that. 'Why?' my daughter asked. 'Because it's been on the ground, you don't know where it's been, it's dirty, and probably has germs' I replied. At this point, my daughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, 'Momma, how do you know all this stuff, you are so smart.' I was thinking quickly. 'All moms know this stuff. It's on the Mom Test. You have to know it, or they don't let you be a Mom.' We walked along in silence for 2 or 3 minutes, but she was evidently pondering this new information. 'OH...I get it!' she beamed, 'So if you don't pass the test you have to be the dad. ''Exactly!" I replied back with a big smile on my face!”
And we had a good laugh!! The day passed by, and with all the chit chatting we had, I now find myself a better person! Relaxed and relieved… I wonder who wanted whom around more! Instead of her, I asked her when should I jump in next time… LOL
Am planning to visit her this weekend too :d And in a dress of my choice!!
Buh Bye Frnz /bye

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Yet Another Day In My Life...

Time is passing by so soon and in just two days, tomorrow will be yesterday! Oh Yes, when I say “yesterday”; I should mention something here! One of my distant aunts called me up, to ask me to do something scary! :-ss her mom, an old woman who stays all alone in Hyderabad, the city I live in; is feeling all alone now a days. My aunt wanted me to visit her once and have a cup of coffee with her. I was like /omg inside and “:)” outside!! I agreed! I wasn’t willing to go anyways. But then, I thought, if only my few hours could make an old woman happy, am not THAT busy in life nor am I gonna do anything worthwhile enough to invent any damn thing in few hours!
Am smart/blush, I know how old women are… The moment she sees me; I’d have to face two thousand and odd questions like “Why is your hair left loose? And why isn’t it oiled”; “Why are you in guy’s dress?”; “Whatever happened to the natural lip color”…. Blah blah blah…  For them everything that a young girl does is wrong! 8-| Though, one good thing about being wrong is the joy it brings to the others. Am trying my best to avoid the questions, look and feel good to the old woman! 
Now, am all dressed up as if am still in 1940s, to my horror even my mirror is showing me in black and white!!??!!http://www.smileycodes.info
Little nervous, don’t know wether the old woman would feel good with me :-s Gonna visit her now and would update tomorrow on how was my day with this old woman..! I hope she wont http://www.smileycodes.info

Thursday, August 12, 2010

In Responce to an American's comment on my previous post. Proud to be an Indian :)

Dear Mr.Edward,
Yes, am from fucking India. India, as you said we have population enough for the crowd to stink. And am from the same India, where we have space not just for each other but for everyone from the world! And we never complain like you do. We have people from all over world, just that we don’t exhibit.
Mr. American, let me ask you few questions now: 
1) Who is the co-founder of Sun Microsystems? 
2)Who is the creator of Pentium chip ?  I think u need no introduction of it Mr.Edward, but since you are dumb, let me tell you that 90% of today’s computers run on it. 
3)Who is the founder and creator of Hotmail that you Americans mostly use?
4) Who is the President of AT & T- Bell Labs? 
5) Who is the GM of Hewlett Packard? 
6) Who are the Chief Executives of CitiBank, Mckensey & Stanchart? 
The Questions are endless Edward, and the names may be different. BUT the answer is one. An Indian.
And Since you feel we Indians are jumping into your country, let me tell ya something. We Indians are the wealthiest among all ethnic groups in America, even faring better than the whites and the natives.  There are 3.22 millions of Indians in USA (just 1.5% of population)
                           38% of Doctors in America are Indians.
                           12% of Scientists in America are Indians.
                           36% of NASA employees are Indians.
                           34% of MICROSOFT employees are Indians.
                           28% of IBM employees are Indians.
                           17% of INTEL employees are Indians.
                           13% of XEROX employees are Indians.            
Dear Mr dumb American, if you still think its fucking India, yes, seems right, cuz u are from fucked up USA who still smell good becuz of we Indians fucked you up.
If you still want to know more about us, let me tell you what a German magazine that deals with facts of world history has to say about India:
1) India never invaded any country in her last 10000 years of history.
2)  India invented the Number System. Aryabhatta invented zero
3) The World's first university was established in Takshila in 700BC.More than 10,500 students from all over the world studied more than 60 subjects. The University of Nalanda built in the 4th century BC was one of the greatest achievements of ancient India in the field of education
4) Sanskrit is the mother of all the European languages. Sanskrit is the most suitable language for computer software reported in Forbes magazine, July 1987.
5) Ayurveda is the earliest school of medicine known to humans.
6) Although modern images of India often show poverty and lack of development, India was the richest country on earth until the time of British invasion in the early 17th Century.
7) The art of Navigation was born in the River Sindh 6000 years ago. The very word Navigation is derived from the Sanskrit word NAVGATIH. The Word navy is also derived from Sanskrit 'Nou'.
8) Bhaskaracharya calculated the time taken by the earth to orbit the sun hundreds of years before the astronomer Smart
9) Budhayana first calculated the value of pi, and he explained the concept of what is known as the Pythagorean Theorem. He discovered this in The 6th century long before the European mathematicians
10) Algebra, trigonometry and calculus came From India; Quadratic equations were by Sridharacharya in the 11th century ; The largest numbers the Greeks and the Romans used were 10 6 [10 to the power of 6] whereas Hindus Used numbers as big as 1053 [10 to The power of 53] with specific names as Early as 5000 BCE during the Vedic period. Even today, the largest used number is Tera 1012 [10 to the power of 12].
11) According to the Gemological Institute of America, up until 1896,India was the only source for diamonds to the world.
12) USA based IEEE has proved what has been a century-old suspicion in the world scientific community that the pioneer of Wireless communication was Prof. Jagdeesh Bose and not Marconi.
13) The earliest reservoir and dam for irrigation was built in Saurashtra. According to Saka King rudradaman I of 150 CE a beautiful lake called 'Sudarshana'  was constructed on the hills of Raivataka during Chandragupta Maurya's time.
14) Sushruta is the father of surgery. 2600 years ago he and health scientists of his time conducted complicated surgeries like cesareans,cataract, artificial limbs, fractures, urinary stones and even plastic surgery and brain surgery. Usage of anesthesia was well known in ancient India. Over 125 surgical equipment were used. Deep knowledge of anatomy, etiology, embryology, digestion, metabolism, genetics and immunity is also found in many texts.
15) When many cultures were only nomadic Forest dwellers over 5000 years ago, Indians established Harappan culture in Sindhu Valley (Indus Valley Civilization) The place value system, the decimal System was developed in India in 100 BC
All the above is just the TIP of the iceberg, the list could be endless
I know Edward, you must now be praying God, and must be begging to be an Indian atleast in your next life! Do Not Worry soo much Edward, we Indians even love our enemies in our culture. We might not be having enough place for all of us as you said, but we still have a big room for outsiders like you and we do that with all our love. Visit India and and donot forget to drop me mail when you do. I can help you to go around places because in our culture, we are taught to respect our guests. They have a place next to parents and teacher! Now you know what WE are… Don’t you?

Happy Days In My Life http://www.smileycodes.info

If you ever read this with any regularity, you knew this was coming. Really, most of you probably didn't think I would even bother to sign off. This blog became something like an old neighbor: you don't see them out in the yard for a while, so you assume something must have happened. Then one day, you hear that your neighbor is dead, and it's not really a surprise. "Oh, I guess that makes sense," you might say to yourself, or, if you're me, you would say something like, "Oh, she's dead now." http://www.smileycodes.info
Past two days, I was busy with something which makes me feel good – Go walking early hours, Tried new recipes and prepared some spicy food, did yoga, went out shopping in the evenings. I also did something which I hated ever- studied! Ask me to study about love stories and practically not so fetching things; I jump in. Ask me study that will fetch my academics and I have a broken heart. Lol, since years I’ve been promising myself that next academic year its’ not gonna be a day’s batting for my next term exams... I wonder why am I not dead till now after so many false promises! Honestly, I have nothing to tell you people as of now. Not every day in a life is stuffed. Don’t want my readers to ponder “what is that she’s trying to express?”  Better be silent than to open a mouth to show foolishness!---- agreed??
You Should! http://www.smileycodes.info

Monday, August 9, 2010

Am I Acting Alien

Oooppsss... Sorry Friends, I’ve not been updating you people since two days. :( And a hundred thanks to all my friends who called up just to ask me to keep posting and also to those friends who were worried wether am okeh just becoz I wasn’t blogging :D. There are reasons why I wasn’t posting. Becoz I wanted to check how long I can keep myself away from this stupid machine… OMG, Am soo used to this machine that the other day, when I got a call from my ISP that I won’t have internet for an hour due to maintenance work going on at their end, I felt lifeless./omg Restless enough to start thinking WTF should I be doing in that hour… Then I realized that am acting weird and that there is a world out of this machine! Went out shopping, bought groceries and Lol, this is the first time that dog’s food took place in my provisions list. Called up near and dear, made them realize am still alive and finally I realized, 1 hour of internet disconnectivity made me finish off my week’s tasks./wahaha
The moment I realized this, I paused and pondered to look at my laptop like this—
Sometimes, we make ourselves addicted to things just becoz we are afraid! Afraid of reality! Getting lost in machines, wandering in an illusive world and a dreamland, takes you far away from reality. Far enough not to sense that you have 6 senses… and am no different, when truth is bitter I try not facing it.
I know am sounding a philosophist now, But that’s what life is! And if you still feel so, scroll back, they were just 3 lines, even I checked back to see if am overloading you people :P:P. Finally, though not 2 full days, I was almost away from this machine for 2 days. Yippee!!! Life’s so colorful… I never knew that life outside machine can be good too! But yeah, after 2 days, when time came again to face reality or to judge where am standing and going towards… I got back to machine…
Friends, are you all like this?? Or am I acting alien?? Comment and let me know :|